2023-03-01
Protocol writer: multi
Start: 20:15
End: 22:01
Attendance: multi, lynxis, yaya, partikel, qyliss, till, lux, mirar, erincandescent, piks3l
TOP 0: Keys
Note: In the future, we would like proposals for new keys to be announced in advance, instead of on the day at the start of the plenum.
Key for mirar
vouching: Lynxis & Lux
mirar gets a key.
TOP 1: What is AfRA about? No to “sex, drugs, and rock and roll”? (Lux)
This topic was already discussed in depth at the previous plenum.
Schwerpunkt: there are some differing opinions in community about what AfRA is about. We would like some consensus on what AfRA is about, and what AfRA is not about. This is presented as a question of culture.
The party at the end of December was perhaps a bit too long. There were a lot of people in the space for an extended period of time, and it's difficult to tell if this made others feel excluded. We don't want to point fingers and blame people for past events, but rather communicate that some boundaries have been overstepped, and move forwards to better consensus about boundaries in the future.
The AfRA is a place with a nice community, which is not something other spaces have always been able to achieve. A core point of this discussion is ensuring that people feel comfortable in the space. Rules are not necessarily a good solution as they're quite rigid, and need to be enforced; there can be a big grey area between what is definitely okay and what is definitely not okay to have or do at AfRA. Within the community there are different groups of people (which is not a bad thing), however we have to be considerate not only towards people from outside the community coming into the space, and also people from other subgroups who might also be in the space concurrently.
There is a difference between some activities which might occur at a party, and those activities being the point of the party. There are some particular activities which even if they only happen very rarely at the AfRA, probably should not be happening at AfRA at all.
The parties are not themselves a core problem, however they do make things more intense, which means that they can result in problems becoming visible more quickly. The problems arise when things happening in the space (e.g. a party getting out of hand, or people having sex on the sofa) mean other people stop coming back in the future.
It's difficult to tell whether people are more or less comfortable in the space if they come less often due to having a bad time in the past. We might want to avoid putting on any parties for a while yet, while we discuss the topics coming out of the last one, as this might take some time. Then, when we're able to have a party in the future, we'll be better able to tell if things have improved at all.
Multiple attendees expressed their confidence that we will return to a point where people feel more comfortable in the AfRA. As a community, we have the trust in each other to discuss and work through these issues, so we can collectively build a nice space. It's important that we give ourselves the chance to do that then, but also requires people to participate in the process to resolve any issues. Keeping the community nice is a very hard task, however we're successfully having productive discussions about difficult topics in this and other recent plena.
The plenum took a break from 21:43 to 21:52.
After the break, the plenum agreed that this topic will be discussed further at the next meeting on 18.03, as many people who want to participate were not able to attend this meeting.